Nobody outside of your circle of family and friends, and even them to some point does not give cares about your problems. You may say you are offended by this but it is actually nature, where actually you are feeling the shock of this news.
So yes chalk that up for nurture!
Once you let these this concept in you will actually feel better. You will probably run into loose women, money opportunities, a nicer place to live, more and/or better friends, etc.
Look I am trying to help you just listen to me and will be fine.
